Ok, so that was to catch you all and get you to read this.
My bff and her LTBF got married in a hurry a few months ago. She had been with him for 5 years, and was going to leave him to take a new job 2 hrs from home. He told her he wanted to get married before she dumped him, and therefore, they went, 3 days later, to be married.
Now she's saying she regrets it. She is Christian, he is not. She works 2, sometimes 3 jobs to make their bills while he stays home. He IS lazy, he acknowledges this, but there is no way of insulting his manhood... he just flat doesn't care.
She's regretting marrying him, and I'm trying to give her solid advice, she's wanting a baby sooooo bad, to either try to handle it and reach a reasonable compromise they can BOTH live with, or leave before they do have a baby and she feels obligated. (neither of us are against single parents, GFY!)
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