Your county government website will have divorce paper work for down load. Many places have temporary orders that will be signed in 10-30 days while the divorce is being worked out. You can file for emergency support money, prevent him from canceling your insurance or phone or other utilities. You can even get the judge to order that you and the kids stay in the house and he leaves.
Divorce is messy. You have to be prepared to lose everything because it could happen. When I knew that I would pay my ex to go away, when i didn't care about any of my possessions, my money, anything, that's when the divorce happened. Do you hate him enough to pay him to leave you alone? Then get divorced.
at 2:11 PM on Dec. 8, 2009