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I dont think i've ever had an orgasm?

I know i've 'came', but never orgasmed. What do you have to do to have one?

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 7:33 PM on Dec. 9, 2009 in Just for Fun

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  • Bummer. I rarely have them. Apparently a lot of women have a hard time getting an O. I don't know why. It's not fair! Men get all the fun! I think manual stimulation (hand play) is the best. I think sometimes not having O is related to emotional issues, too.
    Adelicious

    Answer by Adelicious at 7:37 PM on Dec. 9, 2009

  • i started having sex when i was 15 and i dont believe i ever had an orgasm until i was 20 or 21
    shay1130

    Answer by shay1130 at 7:41 PM on Dec. 9, 2009

  • yeah i didn't have one until years after i started having sex. Play around with it, if you don't know how to do it yourself how are you ever going to direct some clueless guy.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 7:44 PM on Dec. 9, 2009

  • It took me one year of having sex to have an orgasm. I orgasm pretty much everytime I have sex with my DH and it doesnt take me very long. I always go before he does. I guess I'm the odd man out here, but I love sex and orgasms. Im not even gonna answer anon on this one cuz oh well. it's true and I don't care who knows.
    lowencope

    Answer by lowencope at 7:52 PM on Dec. 9, 2009

  • I'm confused.......When I tell my DH I "came" that means I've had an orgasm.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:17 PM on Dec. 9, 2009

  • You would know if you had the big "O". I tell my DH it just took till I got the right partner - him.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:29 PM on Dec. 9, 2009

  • I don't have an orgasm unless my DH plays with my clit during sex. Just have to work out the right positions.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:33 PM on Dec. 9, 2009

  • I gotta be cowgirl to have a g-spot orgasm
    ArmyWife112908

    Answer by ArmyWife112908 at 8:36 PM on Dec. 9, 2009

  • I am confused...."coming" and having an O is the same thing.

    Also, I have to have a vibrator. No biggie, hubby actually thinks its hot ;) Never fails, orgasm everytime!
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:45 PM on Dec. 9, 2009

  • o is by the "g" spot right? came is the clit action?
    if so I come -clit- almost everytime while I play with it and he does me.
    O well I think I have only ever had 2 in my sex life time.
    r00j04j08

    Answer by r00j04j08 at 8:59 PM on Dec. 9, 2009

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