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I dont think i've ever had an orgasm?

I know i've 'came', but never orgasmed. What do you have to do to have one?

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Asked by Anonymous at 7:33 PM on Dec. 9, 2009 in Just for Fun

Answers (25)
  • Bummer. I rarely have them. Apparently a lot of women have a hard time getting an O. I don't know why. It's not fair! Men get all the fun! I think manual stimulation (hand play) is the best. I think sometimes not having O is related to emotional issues, too.

    Answer by Adelicious at 7:37 PM on Dec. 9, 2009

  • i started having sex when i was 15 and i dont believe i ever had an orgasm until i was 20 or 21

    Answer by shay1130 at 7:41 PM on Dec. 9, 2009

  • yeah i didn't have one until years after i started having sex. Play around with it, if you don't know how to do it yourself how are you ever going to direct some clueless guy.

    Answer by Anonymous at 7:44 PM on Dec. 9, 2009

  • It took me one year of having sex to have an orgasm. I orgasm pretty much everytime I have sex with my DH and it doesnt take me very long. I always go before he does. I guess I'm the odd man out here, but I love sex and orgasms. Im not even gonna answer anon on this one cuz oh well. it's true and I don't care who knows.

    Answer by lowencope at 7:52 PM on Dec. 9, 2009

  • I'm confused.......When I tell my DH I "came" that means I've had an orgasm.

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:17 PM on Dec. 9, 2009

  • You would know if you had the big "O". I tell my DH it just took till I got the right partner - him.

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:29 PM on Dec. 9, 2009

  • I don't have an orgasm unless my DH plays with my clit during sex. Just have to work out the right positions.

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:33 PM on Dec. 9, 2009

  • I gotta be cowgirl to have a g-spot orgasm

    Answer by ArmyWife112908 at 8:36 PM on Dec. 9, 2009

  • I am confused...."coming" and having an O is the same thing.

    Also, I have to have a vibrator. No biggie, hubby actually thinks its hot ;) Never fails, orgasm everytime!

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:45 PM on Dec. 9, 2009

  • o is by the "g" spot right? came is the clit action?
    if so I come -clit- almost everytime while I play with it and he does me.
    O well I think I have only ever had 2 in my sex life time.

    Answer by r00j04j08 at 8:59 PM on Dec. 9, 2009

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