ok this may end up being a novel by the time im done but here goes... i am 24 years old and i have two awesome kids, Nikki woh is seven and Will who is five...
im not sure how to start explaining my situation so i guess i will try to start at the begining. i had my daughter when i was 16, i am still with her father who is also the father of our son. well when we got pregnant my parents were obviously upset, and wanted me to have an abortion, which i totally disagreed with and so did he.
well he went to my parents and told them that they didnt have anything to worry about, that me and the baby would be taken care of even if he had to work two and three jobs. well sadly that is yet to happen. after i gave birth to our daughter i went to work to support me and her, and he didnt. at the time i lived with my parents and he lived with his mom.
Answer by JazzlikeMraz at 11:08 AM on Dec. 11, 2009
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Answer by samurai_chica at 10:45 AM on Dec. 11, 2009
Susie, you start by loving you enough to find someone who does. You can't save, change or make him over. He doesn't love you. Find a new apartment, talk to your family about child care, (I assume that he was at least watching the kids). Leave the stuff that he is the only one that uses and just walk away. Better yet kick him out. Pack up his stuff and change the locks. Talk to the landlord and if he is on the lease get a new one, and talk to the cops and make sure you do it legally(that is the last thing you need). Make sure you are not common law married. For the record that is not being a bitch, that is standing up for yourself and you kicks and refusing to be a door mat. So get the RESPCT song and get yourself a man that can respect an love you and your kids. And trust your parents, sounds like they new what was up with him.
Answer by DevilInPigtails at 10:47 AM on Dec. 11, 2009
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Answer by MamaSusieQ045 at 11:06 AM on Dec. 11, 2009
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