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Did you come into your sexuality before or after children?

Dh was my first and I havent been sexually active that long at all about a year and a half. I was always real shy about it even after we were married.. I always wanted the lights off and him not to look at me. I just wasnt comfortable! Then I got pregnant and didnt want sex at all. Now im nearing the end of my ninth month and Im extremely sexual and I dont care what he sees anymore. Im super fat and swollen and yucky right now and I keep thinking... When I get my pre-pregnancy body back it will be tons better and much more fun sexually... Almost like I didnt know what I was missing but was to shy to let loose... How about you?

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Asked by Anonymous at 7:30 PM on Dec. 11, 2009 in Just for Fun

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  • i've always been very open with sex. lol I like the lights being on. I like being able to look in his eyes. i HATE when it is pitch black in the room and I can't see him. there has to be some sort of light, and he has no problem with that. lol

    Answer by Zacherysmommy08 at 7:39 PM on Dec. 11, 2009

  • im open with sex and i dont care if the lights are on or off or anything like that but ive always been like that well after the first time of course

    Answer by myangelelena at 7:50 PM on Dec. 11, 2009

  • Oh, before. Toooootally before. Way before. Years before.

    Answer by caitxrawks at 7:54 PM on Dec. 11, 2009

  • well, technically i don't have any children (i'm a stepmom and i also raise my little brother)
    But i didn't really get into sex until i met my husband and i have had a fair share of partners. But i was molested as a child and raped by an ex boyfriend, so i truly really didn't understand that i was supposed to enjoy sex too. It wasn't really until my husband tried many many times to "please" me in bed but kept failing that i actually put in effort into enjoying sex for myself. I have come a long way in 2 years. Thank GODDESS!

    Answer by outstandingLove at 8:01 PM on Dec. 11, 2009

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