Ok.. so Ill try to make this long story short..
My husband lives in another state.. we were seperated for 6months..
he came to visit me and we were doing great and we planned on a baby..
things happened..now I am pregnant..
he left to his home state before i could find out for sure if i was pregnant or not...
Now he says to leave him alone and he is filing for divorce...
why?... his excuse.. people are telling him I cheated... that he saw a picture of me kissing another man..
oh.. and another thing.. he says he doesn't believe it is his baby...
H.E.L.P!!!.. should I just give him time... or should I wait to get served and sign the divorce papers..? Remember... this is my husband.. and I love him!!.. and I AM PREGNANT! This is my second child I am 22 and I can't do it alone. =[
Asked by Anonymous at 11:46 PM on Dec. 11, 2009 in Relationships
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Answer by Anonymous at 11:53 PM on Dec. 11, 2009
If you didn't cheat on your husband, then you must draw a hard line and stand on it: 1) Tell him that no man/woman has the right to put our marriage asunder. Demand that he also consider the messenger's motivation and not just message, 2) Remind him that you have a constitutional right to meet your accuser, that you haven't surrendered your gavel for anyone to judge you, short of God, 3) Chances are when men feel insecure about you cheating, it's because they are actually the ones cheating and 4) If your marriage doesn't have a foundation of honesty, trust and love, then your marriage requires a lot of work or is lost. Many women have raised their children alone, I have, and so can you. I would contest the divorce, making it more expensive for him, and demand child support. Let him challenge paternity. You ain't got time to cry.
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