I have been divorced for 4 yrs. and since than my exhusband has not been part of my girls life. I moved to another state afte we go split up. For 2 yrs he made the excuse that they my daughters are to far form him. I decided to go back to where he was at so he could be with them, but even than he wasn't. He once went to see my oldest for her 6 yr bday n argued with me that same day n left her. She begged him to stay crying her eyes out but he didnt care. I gave him a chance again after awhile n on halloween he stood them up again. My oldes is really hurt n Im really hurt. But now after a year he calls me again askin to see them n i dnt know what to do. Im scared that he might hurt them again. He expects us to forget only because he feels remorse for what he did. But it isn't about him is about my daughters feelings n my mom thinks im just bein a jerk! Help me I dnt know what to do. What is the right thing to do?Answer Question
Answer by randi1978 at 12:25 AM on Dec. 12, 2009
Answer by michellelee3708 at 12:27 AM on Dec. 12, 2009
Well I think that you should do what you feel is best for your daughters. It seems like he doesn't care. But he is the father of your children. Maybe you need to explain to him how much pain he has caused coming in and out of there life's. That if he wants to see his daughters he needs to prove it. That you may be able to give him another chance. But if it happens again your done. That you would not like him to see them anymore. But at the same time maybe you should just leave the door open. Because cutting him off, Could lead to being the bad guy in the end. Like I am sorry girls I wasn't in your life. Your mom said I wasn't aloud to see you. Your daughters will see that. That mom let us see daddy. Daddy just never came. You know what I am saying but only you can make the final decision. Well I hope you well.
Answer by akmami0f4 at 12:31 AM on Dec. 12, 2009
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Answer by myangelelena at 2:28 AM on Dec. 12, 2009