I didn't register right away what he was saying to me. I saw the cookies and they were nearly burned. I turned to him and asked why he didn't take them out when they were done. He says to me that he didn't hear the timer go off....I was so mad because I spent all that time putting those together and I asked him to do one thing. He agreed to do it and gives me some crap about how he decided to leave them in a little longer. When I am upset over it he changes his story and says he didn't hear the timer go off. He constantly lies to me or gets defensive about mistakes he makes. Instead of just saying what is what, and saying sorry, he pulls crap like that. I hate it mostly because he makes me out to be crazy with my 'accusations' against him. This time he admitted to leaving them in the oven until I got upset. Would this bug you? Are all men like this? All I know is that a dozen cookies are ruined and he isn't to blame at all.Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 12:12 PM on Dec. 12, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by fefe87 at 12:15 PM on Dec. 12, 2009
Typical guy....Guys could care less about these things. Unfortunately, changing this behavior will probably never happen. Think of it this way, this is something important to you & he could less no matter what you put into it & the entire project you have to do on your own. You don't need a guy to make cookies. You can't control or change this. Sorry.
Answer by Anonymous at 12:18 PM on Dec. 12, 2009
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Answer by Zacherysmommy08 at 12:27 PM on Dec. 12, 2009
next time your he is cooking something and he asks you to watch it or take it out when its done, DONT and when its ruined just tell you you decided to leave it in little longer.
Answer by soonmommyof3 at 12:28 PM on Dec. 12, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 12:33 PM on Dec. 12, 2009
Zachery..... I'm with you. I agree with you. It's sounds like she is just not ready to hear the answer you've suggested because it requires lots of maturity & giving up being selfishness. I'm happy to hear you understand how to treat your husband. He will be all the better because of it.
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