I am a 29 married mother of 4, ages 9,3,22mths and 2 1/2 mths.
we have been married 2 years.. He told me yesterday that a month before we got married, he slept with his ex girlfriend a couple times while away a job trip... He is a music producer and he is a little younger than me, 26. Even though he said this was two years, I must say i do not trust him at all, because of situation we had before.... I must say, he indeed has come along way, but this disturbes me because at the time he went away, i was pregnant with my 3rd child.... this is a girl i had issues with before and according to him, he does not even talk to her over the phone... He said he did not want to mention it, because he is changed now and he knew if he told me, i would leave... he also stated he was concerned as to what i would do because i am not strong enough to hear the truth... He thought i would do something crazy like burn the house down
Answer by Anonymous at 10:23 PM on Dec. 12, 2009
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Answer by heartfrommyson at 10:49 PM on Dec. 12, 2009
PP That is bullshit! OP you need to let him know that he broke a HUGE Trust barrier and its up to only HM to fix the trust he lost between you by his cheating! Of course you have to give him the benefit of the doubt or you will just start a vicious cycle. On another note he had sex with someone else while you were pregnant with NO REGARD of that precious baby you were carrying! YOu could have giving you a STD and in return hurt your BABY! I for one would not stand for that.
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