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How much of your relationship is sex?

We do have sex, although its only a very small part maybe 5 percent. We are best friends. How about you?

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Asked by dillonsma at 4:10 PM on Dec. 14, 2009 in Relationships

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  • not so much sex anymore or even best friends! To have that is wonderful:)

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:11 PM on Dec. 14, 2009

  • When we first started dating sex was about 30% of our realtionship.
    Now it's maybe 3%.

    Answer by JazzlikeMraz at 4:12 PM on Dec. 14, 2009

  • I couldn't really pick a percent.
    Sometimes, I feel like thats all our relationship is, and then sometimes it isnt.

    It differs a lot.

    Answer by ammbbbeeeerrrrr at 4:14 PM on Dec. 14, 2009

  • I think sex should be a big part of sex. Sex is foremost physical, but is also meant to be emotional and if your not connected on both of those levels than it's not going right. So i'd say that my relationship is probaby 40 percent sex. But we're connected on so many other levels too.

    Answer by SaraP1989 at 4:18 PM on Dec. 14, 2009

  • Hmmm the percentage changes all the time depending on whats happening. We were friends before dating so i think that made a huge difference and there was always that strong attraction. Our sex life isnt near as crazy as it used to be lol.

    We still have sex and lots of it and we still go hang out like friends but there is always that underlying sexual tone to everything, thats just how my DH is.

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:18 PM on Dec. 14, 2009

  • Sex is a  very important component in my marriage but it's quality not quantity that matters.


    Answer by beeky at 4:56 PM on Dec. 14, 2009

  • not enough...

    Answer by samurai_chica at 4:59 PM on Dec. 14, 2009

  • Lol, DH and I have always had a great relationship, but we do have a happier, healthier, more affectionate relationship when we're having more sex.

    Answer by matobe at 5:10 PM on Dec. 14, 2009

  • Our's is mostly sex. We are total opposites and have almost nothing in common so we just stick with what works for us and that is sex.

    Answer by admckenzie at 5:12 PM on Dec. 14, 2009

  • yeah,about 10%.We're friends and partners first.

    Answer by TMJ121099 at 5:22 PM on Dec. 14, 2009

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