when me and dh first got married, every and anything we fought about I went to my mother and told her, complained about him all the time. well I basically planted a seed of dislike of him in her mind. Big mistake. I was young and still immature. We've been separated for a while since march and every time I express to her that I want to work things out she gives me attitude. She even said she had a dream me and him got back together and she was furious. Well, since August we have been really working on things and have been talking about me and the girls moving back w/ him in Jan. The problem is I haven't told her this and I'm afraid that she will not want anything to do w/ me. I love my mother to death and I don't know what I'd do w/o her. but I also love my husband and don't know what I'd do w/o him. How do I tell my mother w/o upsetting her and how do I keep both relationships in tact?
Asked by Anonymous at 11:07 PM on Dec. 14, 2009 in Relationships
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