my "x" hasnt seen my girls in almost a year,he has a new baby with his 22 year old girlfriend(he is 46),all the sudden he calls my mother's house looking for us...said he has ritten letters and called several times but has gotten no answers from either. The only time he writes or calls is when he gets put in jail for something,when he does call,he makes them cry,everytime. How should I deal with that? When he gets drunk,he'll call, so I had the #changed and didnt give it t o him,we even moved and he hasnt the new address..Answer Question
Answer by samurai_chica at 9:52 AM on Dec. 15, 2009
Answer by Nyx7 at 9:53 AM on Dec. 15, 2009
Answer by KFree907 at 9:58 AM on Dec. 15, 2009
Answer by gammie at 10:09 AM on Dec. 15, 2009
Answer by robyann at 10:10 AM on Dec. 15, 2009
Answer by niceandspice at 10:14 AM on Dec. 15, 2009
I wouldn't deal with it. I would ignore every attempt he makes. If he has a problem then tell him to take you court.
Answer by dawnjohnson5 at 1:59 PM on Dec. 15, 2009
Can I ask how old are your kids? First I would never let him talk to the children at late hours like 2AM. Also, I think your right on with not letting him talk to the kids when he has been drinking to much. You say he always makes them cry, is this because he is being mean or rude or is it because the children get emotional when they hear from their father because they miss him or something along those lines? The reason I ask is when I was younger I would cry every time my Daddy called because years would go by between phone calls and I really wanted to know my father. So our conversations would always be very emotional.
Answer by em-jae at 4:16 AM on Dec. 19, 2009
Answer by salexander at 11:45 AM on Dec. 21, 2009
Next question in Teens (13-17)
How would you handle this? (stop texting for alittle bit)
Next question overall
how come some moms know how to relax...while I'm trying so hard to be...