My boyfriend/fiancee and I have a really strong relationship and I love it.He's got 4 wonderful children and I myself have 1 daughter.He only has his children every other weekend and I'm by no means trying to act like their mother but I do intend on assisting their father in raising them,and as of late there father has given me the ok for helping with the disciplinary actions for the children which is where alot of my issues are coming into affect.The childrens mother does not wish for me to discipline her children in any manner and she has expressed this to me which I understand,but in the same aspect I don't want his children to run over the top of me due to the fact that I cannot do anything to have them stop and I'm beyond myself as what to do.Any advice would be greatly appreciated.Thank you.Answer Question
Answer by admckenzie at 5:13 PM on Dec. 15, 2009
Answer by PURPULbutterfly at 5:17 PM on Dec. 15, 2009
Answer by shay1130 at 5:18 PM on Dec. 15, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 5:23 PM on Dec. 15, 2009
Answer by shay1130 at 5:25 PM on Dec. 15, 2009
Answer by JazzlikeMraz at 5:26 PM on Dec. 15, 2009
Answer by shay1130 at 5:27 PM on Dec. 15, 2009
Answer by matobe at 5:36 PM on Dec. 15, 2009
I would leave it up to Dad as much as possible, but if they are not respecting you and following house rules then you need to set in and support Dad. Have Dad be very clear as the the house rules and what the consequences are, then when and if you need to say something the consequences are already in place from Dad, so it is hard to complain, you are enforcing Dad's rules, not you own.
Answer by DevilInPigtails at 5:41 PM on Dec. 15, 2009
Answer by Blubuni99 at 5:51 PM on Dec. 15, 2009
Next question overall
(Politics & Current Events)
Would you report someone driving with a suspended license and no insurance?