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Do you ever feel like you take second fiddle to your kids?

My dh takes weekday evenings and weekends to spend with our kids- individual time with each. While I think it's great, our kids are pre-teen and teen age. On the nights they are busy doing something with a friend, I notice he will engage in his own personal hobbies. I can't find a time for him to hang out with me other than in the bedroom when we go to sleep! Any help?

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Asked by Anonymous at 7:56 PM on Dec. 15, 2009 in Relationships

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  • Have you suggested doing something together?

    Answer by Anonymous at 7:59 PM on Dec. 15, 2009

  • Yep I have and he procrastinates.

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:01 PM on Dec. 15, 2009

  • I make my husband pay attention to me. i'm like a cat, I rub all over him, fondle him, drag him away from current project, I demand attention.

    This might be a bit extream for you but just trying forcing attention on him.

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:58 PM on Dec. 15, 2009

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