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nb not happy unless held.

I have a 7 day old infant and she is not happy unless she is being held. I'm not sure what to do. If I put her down, she cries....even if she was sleeping. She will wake up and cry. I'm usually all for tough love but not at 7 days old. What should I do?

 
Mel_in_PHX

Asked by Mel_in_PHX at 8:05 PM on Dec. 15, 2009 in Babies (0-12 months)

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Answers (8)
  • That is how my daughter was...I got a sling and we co-slept. She was happy, I was happy, and we both got sleep.
    Carajust

    Answer by Carajust at 8:23 PM on Dec. 15, 2009

  • get a sling.
    piwife

    Answer by piwife at 8:08 PM on Dec. 15, 2009

  • Hold her. Get a sling.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:08 PM on Dec. 15, 2009

  • yep. get a sling and consider co sleeping.
    outstandingLove

    Answer by outstandingLove at 8:18 PM on Dec. 15, 2009

  • hold her, girl hold her like your sanity depends on it. cause it sortta does... I held my baby and now she's perfectly fine, we have a thing in Cambodia where we decide if your baby is "mean" or not. my baby was "mean" and you need to teach her to be nice, so hold her and show her how it is to be nice.
    khmymommi

    Answer by khmymommi at 8:25 PM on Dec. 15, 2009

  • Get a sling... like the cambodia "thing"! I'll have to remember that one ;)
    LeanneC

    Answer by LeanneC at 8:28 PM on Dec. 15, 2009

  • thanks 4 the advice. i actually got a sling @ my baby shower. i"ll have 2 dig it out.
    Mel_in_PHX

    Answer by Mel_in_PHX at 8:34 PM on Dec. 15, 2009

  • keep her swaddled in a blanket. A baby before its born is in a very tight spot in your womb and so they like having that "secure" feeling so if you need a break from holding your baby and you don't want them to cry just make sure you have em wrapped up nice and tight
    shay1130

    Answer by shay1130 at 8:42 PM on Dec. 15, 2009

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