It seems lately she has been angry and she certainly has been acting out. I do not know how to get her to talk to me about what ever it is that is bothering her. I try and try and some of the answers she gives me makes me wonder if she even knows why she is acting up. She screams, kicks, and hits and then gets mad at me when I try to tell her that what she is doing is uncalled for and completely out of hand. She pushes and pushes until I feel like I am going to implode! What can I do?
Answer by Lor7387 at 11:36 PM on Dec. 16, 2009
Answer by admckenzie at 9:23 PM on Dec. 15, 2009
Eight is when the "big girl" hormones start kicking in. Make sure that your daughter understands that this may be why she feels so crazy; my mom never had that conversation with me, and it made my adolescenceso much more difficult. My daughter was much better prepared psychologically for all of the physical and emotional changes.
Schedule some special mother/daughter time every week. Ask her about school: what is her favorite subject:? what has she done this year that she is proud of? etc.
Answer by rkoloms at 6:17 AM on Dec. 16, 2009