Yep, my husband works with computers in his job (he's a software engineer) and he is on a computer or iPhone almost nonstop when he's not a work. He plays computer games, surfs the net, creates websites for fun, hangs out on message boards that are about video games, etc. For the first 4 years of our marriage, I felt like his computer was the other woman. I whined, nagged, pleaded, paraded around in skimpy lingerie and all other sorts of things to try and get him away from his computers. Some where along the way I decided to just stop fighting it.
All men have an interest and an outlet. I'm thankful that my husband's interest keeps him at home. Also, when I stoped whining and nagging him about his computer addiction, he started to spend more time with me voluntarily. The more I was happy without his undivided attention, the more attention he freely gave me.
at 11:31 PM on Dec. 15, 2009