We don't know anything about your relationship. Are you two together only for the child's sake, or are you together because you genuinely love one another? If you're only together because you have a child together then you two shouldn't be together at all. Being in a relationship for any other reason then pure love is wrong on both parts. It will negatively effect both of you and your child's life if you stay together souly due to having a child. If you're genuinely in love with him and he with you, then put more thought into if you even want to be married. Do you see a future with this man as his wife, or is it just a commitment thing? If you don't see a future with him as his wife, especially if it's not something that excites you, then don't get married. If you're just looking for permenant connection and nothing else, then don't get married. You have to look into this, we can't tell you what's best for you.
at 10:18 PM on Dec. 16, 2009