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i been with my daughter father 4 eight years never ask me to marry him with should i do let him go


Asked by Anonymous at 9:39 PM on Dec. 16, 2009 in Relationships

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  • We don't know anything about your relationship. Are you two together only for the child's sake, or are you together because you genuinely love one another? If you're only together because you have a child together then you two shouldn't be together at all. Being in a relationship for any other reason then pure love is wrong on both parts. It will negatively effect both of you and your child's life if you stay together souly due to having a child. If you're genuinely in love with him and he with you, then put more thought into if you even want to be married. Do you see a future with this man as his wife, or is it just a commitment thing? If you don't see a future with him as his wife, especially if it's not something that excites you, then don't get married. If you're just looking for permenant connection and nothing else, then don't get married. You have to look into this, we can't tell you what's best for you.

    Answer by JazzlikeMraz at 10:18 PM on Dec. 16, 2009

  • Do you want to be married to him? If so after waiting eight years. Time to give him a ultimatum.   Marry me or leave.


    Answer by louise2 at 9:53 PM on Dec. 16, 2009

  • Ask him !!!! There is nothing wrong with asking.

    Answer by nickynova at 9:54 PM on Dec. 16, 2009

  • If marriage is a big deal to you and you can see that this isnt headed in that direction then ditch him and stop being dragged along

    Answer by tam84 at 11:29 PM on Dec. 16, 2009