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if you told an exbf that you aborted his baby to hurt him would you come clean

even after 10 years have passed.

I just feel I need to clear this from my mind.

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 1:57 PM on Dec. 17, 2009 in Just for Fun

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  • That's terrible. You told him that or you really did that? I'm confused...
    mamaada

    Answer by mamaada at 1:59 PM on Dec. 17, 2009

  • Its probably for the best. I hope you have a good damn reason why you aborted the kid. I wouldn't want to speak to you, but im not him. So, good luck with it.
    armywife2009101

    Answer by armywife2009101 at 2:00 PM on Dec. 17, 2009

  • You are so messed up. Karma....
    I would never do something so low, so would not need to come clean. You are sick.
    Whatkids

    Answer by Whatkids at 2:02 PM on Dec. 17, 2009

  • This is the op

    We were planning on buying a house and trying to get preg. and everything in the world was wonderful for me,him and my 3 kids.
    his ex gf comes back into the picture, cries her eyes out that she wants another chance. Her gives her a second chance!!!!!
    I was beside myself...so I told him I had an abortion........I was never pregnant......I just told him I kept it all a secret because of the woman he took back.
    so I lied twice....no baby...no abortion
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:05 PM on Dec. 17, 2009

  • IF I did that (which I wouldn't) I would come clean. Obviously it is still bothering you.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:05 PM on Dec. 17, 2009

  • wow, that was cruel. unless you had the child for real and can give him the child back into his life...i would let it go and try to fix things so karma would not ruin my life. how does a person get so mean they do something like that?
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:06 PM on Dec. 17, 2009

  • you posted this in JUST FOR FUN? that says a lot
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:07 PM on Dec. 17, 2009

  • Prime example of why ignorrant people shouldn't have children!
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:09 PM on Dec. 17, 2009

  • She;s asking for advice, not bashing.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:14 PM on Dec. 17, 2009

  • It's been 10 years...a little late for advice!
    mamaada

    Answer by mamaada at 2:15 PM on Dec. 17, 2009

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