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is it strange that i think im falling in love with someone i havnt seen in years?

so i got a request from a guy on facebook about 2 weeks ago, i used to go to school with him but wasnt ever really friends with him. i ran into him over the summer but i was drunk so i didnt really remember. heres the deal. we started talking 2 weeks ago n immediatly hit it off. but hes in iraq in the army so its only ever been online. its not like hes a random person cause i know him. but we seriously talk everyday all day long like some days for hours and hours on end. today i got flower and a teddy bear and a card because he cant be here for the holidays. he literally makes my heart melt everytime i talk to him. hes so sweet. were dating now but is it weird that i think im totallly falling in love with him? weve never kissed even but i get butterflies just thinking about him. hes coming home in a few weeks for 16 days and everyday i cant wait anymore to hug him

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 2:44 PM on Dec. 17, 2009 in Relationships

Answers (9)
  • awe thats sweet !
    BellaDiamond

    Answer by BellaDiamond at 2:48 PM on Dec. 17, 2009

  • No its not strange girl....thats called love! And by the sound of it....he might feel the same way about you! You go girl!!!
    vdr1983

    Answer by vdr1983 at 2:52 PM on Dec. 17, 2009

  • That's really cute!
    ali_1107

    Answer by ali_1107 at 2:55 PM on Dec. 17, 2009

  • Oh that's sweet. I'm jealous haha
    TyBryantsmom

    Answer by TyBryantsmom at 2:59 PM on Dec. 17, 2009

  • someone told me that guys in the army just keep a girl ready for when they come home and that its not real and ill end up getting hurt. but he just sent me a teddy bear and flowers and candy canes and a card for christmas
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:01 PM on Dec. 17, 2009

  • omg! i have the same problem right now that crazy! When I was in high school I dated this guy named brian for about a year, well we broke up because he moved and we both werent too big about the long distant relationship thing but it was awful. A couple years later I got with my son's dad, and we were young when we got pregnant 16 & 17. And now my sons dad is such a dick, and Ive wanted to leave him for awhile, I just done have anywhere else to go. but Last year Brian sent me a friend request on myspace, and Ive been talking to him everyday since. I cant get him out of my head! I told him about my situation with my sons dad, and he said I could come stay with him, but he lives 2 states away. Plus i used to be so skinny, and gorgeous, and when I had my son, I got really depressed, and add my sona dad to that, and the stress.. it made me gain alot of weight, and i dont want him to see me like i am now. But im glad some1 else is
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:08 PM on Dec. 17, 2009

  • cont'd

    having the same problem as I am!
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:09 PM on Dec. 17, 2009

  • It's not strange at all. I don't think you have to kiss someone to fall in love. I know I'm a prud, but I didn't kiss my DH until 8 months after we got together (I was overseas part of that time). I didn't let him kiss me until I started thinking he was the guy I was gonna marry. He's the only guy I've ever kissed, and I'm very happy about that. Good luck!
    Adelicious

    Answer by Adelicious at 3:20 PM on Dec. 17, 2009

  • Many times we fall in love with the essence of who we believe them to be. So it makes sense even if he is far away
    admckenzie

    Answer by admckenzie at 4:10 PM on Dec. 17, 2009

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