is the pooping an awareness thing (she doesn't know til its too late)? or a "choice"?
awareness = set up poopy breaks (call it whatever you want)... same time every day, even if you don't think you have to go, sit on the potty and try.
choice = sticker chart.
step one: every time she uses the potty she gets a sticker, 10 stickers (regardless of how long it takes) she gets something special
step two: once shes consistently achieving step one, 1 week of stickers (no accidents~ if she has an accident start the week over but don't wait til the next week to start... ie sunday :), mon:), tues:( ok now the week is tues-mon... basically 1 week = 7 days) = special thing
step three: once she's getting step two consistently lengthen the time 2 weeks, 3 weeks...
step 4: 1 month with NO accidents = shopping trip for big girl panties
the key is to praise the + and not guilt trip the kid
at 7:03 PM on Dec. 17, 2009