So when my son was born, I told the state that the father was unknown so that they would not go after him for child support. THe reason I did this is because I knew that he would just want to take my son bc he was paying for him (kinda like, ok well i bought the shirt might as well wear the shirt out to the club tonight, type of comparison in his mind) and not becaues he actually cared about him. So we had a deal out of court, basically, i took care of the baby and he did nothing, and he paid me whenever he felt like it. now it has been three months and he hasnt paid or done anything, i actually figured he just didnt want anything to do with him bc he had only seen him a few times here and there since he was born. Hes now almost 11 months.
so I do get help from the state for food and insurance, but i am in school and was planning on only being on state funds for another year, tops.
Now my sons father wants ... (cont.)
Asked by Anonymous at 3:17 PM on Dec. 18, 2009 in Babies (0-12 months)
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You just tell the PA that he is one of the guys you were messing around with at the time of conception. he wanted to know if the kid is his, and by chance it is. You shouldn't have an issue with PA about it.
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