FIL lives with us, and has been here 9 months. He said when he moved in that he ONLY needed a few months til his check got going. Yeah right. He is a master manipulator. He "can't afford anywhere" but he can buy beer and food for his brother and buddies he hangs out with on weekends. He doesn't contribute anything here...except for cigarette butts in my yard, and messes worse than my kids have ever left. DH is going to Iraq for a year next month. I am not comfortable having him here period, much less without DH here. All he said when DH told him he was leaving was "I hope that doesn't mess up MY living arrangement." Now DH is "doesn't know how" to tell him, or where he'll go. SIL has room! Do you think she offered? Heck no. He should have found a place months ago. So how do I get him out?! Or rather, how does DH get him out?
Asked by Anonymous at 3:37 AM on Dec. 20, 2009 in Just for Fun
Your husband needs to man up and tell his dad it's time for him to go. Maybe he can talk to his sister and see if she can put Daddy Dearest up for a little while. But if you are uncomfortable with him being there, he should not be there. Trust me when I say I KNOW how hard it is to have a parent living in the house with you. My mom lived with us for nearly 3 years. At least she helped clean up and contributed to the grocery bills, but it was not easy. We get along a lot better now that she is living elsewhere. Good luck! I hope you get this taken care of before your husband deploys. It's hard enough dealing with a deployment without the added stress of having his dad there--especially if he's like you say he is.
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