Ok my boyfriend wanted me to meet his best friends which so happened to be females. so we went to dinner together, That was about four days ago. So last night him and I went to dinner and he had a little to drink and told me that one of the girls he had actually dated and had sex with. Did i have a right to be pissed off? I felt disrespected and stupid. WHy would he think I would be ok going to dinner with his ex.
Answer by MoMoFu at 12:13 PM on Dec. 20, 2009
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Answer by maybebaby83 at 10:14 AM on Dec. 20, 2009
I think it was rather disrespectful. I mean how would he feel if the shoe was on the other foot. Tell you something I think you should rethink your relationship with said boyfriend.
Answer by Anonymous at 10:42 AM on Dec. 20, 2009
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Answer by Learner at 11:01 AM on Dec. 20, 2009
It wouldn't bother me either. I slept with one of my friends once when I first met him and then 5 years later when I started dating my husband he was upset about it. I told him after we'd been dating a few months but he thought I should have told him sooner. I honestly didnt' tell him because I more or less forgot about it. My friend and I tried dating, it didn't work out, so we ended up friends. I just think of him just as a friend so I never thought to tell my husband differently.
How long ago did they sleep together? It would have been nice of him to tell you before dinner, but maybe he didn't think of it.
Answer by maxswolfsuit at 11:14 AM on Dec. 20, 2009
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