Should I kill him or just ignore him? Mr. Sucking the joy out of Christmas...
My DH is the black hole of dismal dispair around Christmas - Bad childhood, alcoholic father, terrible Christmas memories...you get it.
Ok here is the problem, he is 40 years old and EVERY Christmas he becomes ..well...EYEORE!!! We have been blessed with a beautiful 7 month old baby girl and this is her first Christmas ( I know she is too young to know but I do) and we will have his 12 year old daughter too. I am about to kill him - he is ruining my Christmas joy - I do not want him to be this way for the kids....
Any suggestions as to how I can snap him out of it? Any one in the same boat?? Thanks!
Answer by ronjwake at 10:55 AM on Dec. 21, 2009
Answer by chefronswife at 10:57 AM on Dec. 21, 2009
Answer by ronjwake at 11:01 AM on Dec. 21, 2009
You can't make him feel what he doesn't. Just do for the children and exclude him out.
I've been doing all the work for the holidays for years on end and it does get tiresome. I've cut back a lot and I've been able to enjoying the holidays just him. =]
Answer by Anonymous at 11:21 AM on Dec. 21, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 2:24 PM on Dec. 21, 2009
Answer by Auntiemom410 at 10:09 AM on Dec. 22, 2009
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