I have been wanting to see what my boyfriend's long term goals are for our relationship... or any relationship in general. When normal young couples meet (before kids and divorces) normally they can dream of the progression that usually takes place in a relationship. Love, maybe moving in together, marriage, kids. It's not been long enough that I feel completely comfortable talking to him on this topic without fear of scaring him off... but we have both been getting to know eachother's kids and I don't want anyone too get way too attatched before I know that our long term goals are in line. How do I ask him if he eventually wants to move in with a partner and under what terms he'd be looking for that kind of relationship. I'm in no hurry to actually progress to that part of the relationship. I'm just wondering what kind of potential there is and how it will affect our kids.
Answer by tropicalmama at 6:13 PM on Dec. 21, 2009
Answer by admckenzie at 1:39 PM on Dec. 21, 2009
Answer by tropicalmama at 6:05 PM on Dec. 21, 2009