So I was planning on leaving my DH after Xmas. Letting the kids have one last good day with him and then leaving while they're on break from school. I told him already I was planning on leaving after Xmas, and he thinks if he says he cna't live without me it will make me stay. But we were more or less "fighting", just not getting along today at all, and I'm so tempted to just pack up some bags and leave. But Xmas is only a few days away, and I hate to make the kids suffer(any more) because I'm fed up. would it better to just leave? Or should I wait? I think I should wait, but don'tknow if that's just the chicken in me talking or not...
Asked by Anonymous at 6:56 PM on Dec. 21, 2009 in Relationships
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Answer by Anonymous at 7:04 PM on Dec. 21, 2009
It might be savable, It might not. I have being fighting an uphill battle for 3 yrs! sometimes are okay, but more often than not it's hell. It is abusive. you name it we've been through it. Deployments, lving with the in-laws, money problems, communication problems, cheating(every kind of way there is to cheat--email, phone, websites, real live), Even stuff beyond our control like having kids with special needs. Every time I say I can't take it anymore he promises he'll stop, or he's sorry, and then what? maybe months go by, and he's back to the same shit. I AM leaving. I was just so tempted to hit the road tomorrow....but I will wait until after Xmas.
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