My ex gets our boys the 1st and 3rd weekends of the month. We share holidays, and he comes to sports that they are in. Otherwise I don't tell him anything else. I have sole physical custody, our boys are free to call him when they want. Their Dad lives out of state. I still live in the state our children were born in. They see him on a set schedule, but if we have to change it, I let him know. He's a disney dad, but that's ok, we have a very stable life at home and they know that. Just stick to a routine so they know what to expect, and if you feel he needs to know something then tell him.
You don't have to tell him where she is all the time. I always tell my ex if something happens, he will be the first to know.
at 9:47 PM on Dec. 21, 2009