Well I am & I'm sick of it! My husband "loves" Christmas, so I go out of my way to give him his holiday even though he doesn't participate in his religion in any other way (btw, I'm Jewish & we've raised our son Jewish). DH wants cookies, so I bake them. He wants a tree, so I decorate it (all snowmen & no creche - it's our compromise). He wants gifts for his family & I'm expected to buy them & wrap them. If I don't do all of this stuff, he becomes unbearable to live with! I honestly don't mind doing it for him, but when I ask for some help, he should be at least willing to help, right? I mean, it's not like I'm telling him to do it all himself & he's been laid off for 2 wks, so it's not like he's tired from work, either. If he does lift a finger to help, it's grudgingly and only after 15 minutes of arguing w/him.
It's not like I don't have better things to do & since this is all for him, I think he should help. Do you?
Asked by Anonymous at 11:33 PM on Dec. 21, 2009 in Holidays
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