My DH works outside the home & I am a SAHM. He does very little housework (maybe the dishes once a week & that's it). Our house is constantly a mess. He does not pick up after himself, doesn't put things back where they belong, leaves dirty dishes & trash all over. I have to clean up after him 90% of the time. I also have a 20 month old DD, a 15 year old SD, 5 cats, & a dog that I do most everything for. DH does very little parenting as well; I feel like a single parent to DD & SD much of the time. SD has PTSD from abuse & neglect from her BM, so she is very emotionally needy, etc.
Even when I was in college p/t he wouldn't help me & I had to drop out (lost my financial aid too). I took this semester off to try to fix our marriage- nothing has changed.
Every time I leave something to DH it doesn't get done, even when he PROMISES he will do it. He would rather sit in front of the tv or computer.
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