This is sort of long, bare with me... We're having a party at our small apartmnt. A 20's themed party, which I picked bc my best friend thought it would be fun. My husband&I have 2 boys 3&5, who may be there if we can't find a babysitter. But will be invisible as possible during the party. Bc the party is an adult night for my husband&I. It's for us to enjoy adult conversation and fun. My single, childless Best Friend is now asking to bring her 12yr old nephew. This is the Best Friend the whole party was themed for. She's giving me the ultimatum. The 12 yr old comes or I don't. But its not a party for a 12yr old who's going to want to be in conversations, play games, etc. That's not what our nights about. So my hubby&I said no. But the whole party will be ruined without my Best Friend there. What do I do? Am I being overdramatic about it? I feel like my hubby&I deserve our grownup night. They don't happen often.Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 12:00 PM on Dec. 22, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by mompam at 12:02 PM on Dec. 22, 2009
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Answer by Mary229 at 12:06 PM on Dec. 22, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 12:06 PM on Dec. 22, 2009
I would ask her that since she isn't coming could she babysit for me so Hub and I could have a child-free evening for once. I mean, since she won't be able to come anyway, why not? It's your house, your party. It is very rude of HER to give you an ultimatum about whether or not her 12 yr old nephew barges into your party. Does she have NO manners at all? It's not like he could be her DATE. I'd tell her to stay home then. But that's just me.
Answer by SimplyLaine at 12:13 PM on Dec. 22, 2009
Answer by JazzlikeMraz at 12:14 PM on Dec. 22, 2009
Well I don't agree with her giving you an ultimatum, screw that! That is wrong.
Answer by Anonymous at 12:17 PM on Dec. 22, 2009
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