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Does this site honestly make you question your relationship?

So some of the questions are ligit, but sometimes I have to take a vacation from CM because all of the questions about "is my man cheating on me" and "does your DH/SO do this?" makes me CRRRRAZY with doubt-ridden thoughts. Its horrible. Am I the only one that this happens to?


Asked by Anonymous at 12:45 PM on Dec. 22, 2009 in Relationships

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Answers (9)
  • i think we all question our relationships now and then. people post because they are looking for hope and reassurance, however a lot of times they never get it because they are seeing the situation through the eyes of love not the reality . its only sad that so many woman answer with mean attacks instead of understanding. you may have a great marriage but not everyone does and a lot of the post are prpbably from the same people who didn't post in a way people understood.

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:55 PM on Dec. 22, 2009

  • I think women post these types of questions because they likely have no one else to turn to and want advice. The life of a wife and mother is hard, many don't have friends or support in real life. Not everyone has a perfect life or spouse. I just don't read questions that I suspect might be irritating.

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:50 PM on Dec. 22, 2009

  • Op here: Oh don't get me wrong, I understand the posting questions, and they don't irritate me, it just honestly makes me think, "If her DH is doing that {whatever THAT might be} and she is questioning it, and my guy is doing the same thing, why am I not questioning it? Do I need to question him more?" It gets my wheels turning and makes me crazy! LOL. I'm just curious if I'm the only one who does it!

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:52 PM on Dec. 22, 2009

  • Nope, it doesn't make me worry at all. It really just makes me feel bad that so many women have so many doubts about their SO's. I have complete trust in my hubby and I don't let someone else's trouble make me question my own trustworthy relationship.

    Answer by canadianmom1974 at 12:58 PM on Dec. 22, 2009

  • nope- makes me relish in the security we have in our relationship.

    there is nothing to question, so, why would i have doubts?

    Answer by ObbyDobbie at 1:02 PM on Dec. 22, 2009

  • This site makes me thankful for my very wonderful husband. I was happy with him prior to finding CafeMom, now I realize, after reading the questions and comments on here, that I have nearly the best darned husband a woman could ask for.

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:09 PM on Dec. 22, 2009

  • This site makes me realize there are a lot of really bad husbands out there and a LOT of women who put up with shit that would make me string my husband up and beat him like a pinata!

    Answer by Allergic2Stupid at 1:36 PM on Dec. 22, 2009

  • it makes me thankful for my relationship- and a husband who's not a total douche bag. but i see what you mean, it does keep me on my toes, though i'd never let him go "clubbing" and shit like that alone like some of these women. clubbing is a single persons thing unless u bring your spouse.

    Answer by Hali_Taylor at 2:40 PM on Dec. 22, 2009

  • It makes me worry when my relationship is going well and yes it drives me crazy because I start thinking a billion things and images of him being with someone else. It makes me sick to my stomach but it's only because I don't feel secure in our relationship. =(

    Answer by penguinbabe44 at 12:19 PM on Dec. 23, 2009