I like to blog on myspace- when I do I get letters from my SIL assuming that the blog was about her, then she makes threats like "tick me off&you can't see your niece" she doesn't ask if it was about her, often she doesn't even mention the blog. I just get irrational letters with threats,eventually I find out it was over a blog that had nothing to do with her.
I've had to set my blogs so she can't see them, I think it may be better to just take her off the list entirely since she goes looking for anything against me she can get- long story. ask if you would like to know-
Should I take her off&leave her husband, my husband's brother, or take them both off? I don't have much of a problem with him, but it can cause a problem if I leave him. but then I can't win, so I wonder if I should just do as I want. I was already banned for months from seeing my niece from a blog that had nothing to do with her.
What would you do?
Asked by Anonymous at 4:01 PM on Dec. 22, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by lisa_ann_p at 4:09 PM on Dec. 22, 2009
Answer by tinkerbell319 at 4:09 PM on Dec. 22, 2009
Answer by babycakes254 at 4:12 PM on Dec. 22, 2009
writing of the posting- I think that there may be someone who is telling her what's on them- as far as I know there isn't. If I set up another account, then someone could still tell her what's there. It's not just myspace, this woman has sent me letters telling me what I should write and what I shouldn't. Problem is that I'm a writer and looking to get published again after a long absence. I'm writing books that she will probably have a problem with. They will be under a pen name, but I know that one way or another this issue is going to have to be addressed eventually. She's against family counseling. I love my niece, but I let the threat of not seeing her run my life. So in short, the issue is much bigger than myspace blogs- looking for any info that I can get- difficult decisions to make! TY!
Answer by Anonymous at 4:16 PM on Dec. 22, 2009
Answer by lisa_ann_p at 4:26 PM on Dec. 22, 2009
writing of the posting- funny Lisa ann p! actually, she's told me that's she's worried that I'll write a character that's a crazy b*tch-I just tactfully told her that someday there might BE a character with a crazy b*tch- but it doesn't mean that it was her. Boy,did you hit my SIL right on the head.As far as my BIL goes,he does step in sometimes,but not as often as you would think. I try to understand-his wife had a near death emergency a few years back and he worries about loosing her Because if her surviving this ordeal,most won't speak up to this woman.
I think I may get another account and post it with the pen name-suppose I don't have to do those blogs, but they are good wrtting practice.truth, I'veNEVER written a character based on this woman-never felt that she provided enough material.in my kids books my main little girl character doesn't even HAVE a mother.may be mad about that too-figures
Answer by Anonymous at 4:49 PM on Dec. 22, 2009
Answer by americansugar80 at 4:54 PM on Dec. 22, 2009
Answer by Katie80620 at 2:09 AM on Dec. 23, 2009