If you were told by your boyfriend/childs father/somewhat SO, that this year for X-mas, instead of going to grandma's like you ALWAYS do, you had to go to his moms? Now, keep in mind we just found out his mom has breast cancer, and she lives a few hours away and he wants you to support him, but what if he said "I swear to God, you are going to my moms, that's it" Would you go to support him or would you go to your grandma's instead because thats what you want to do?
To me, Christmas is about being with family, I dont feel like part of his family, and I said he could take the baby with him, and on top of that, isn't her cancer sort of a family affair? I know he needs my support and that I am going, but I really just want to go to my family dinner like I have done my whole life. So yes, right now, Im pouting about it, and I will get over it soon enough, I just want to know what you would do.
Asked by Anonymous at 7:28 PM on Dec. 22, 2009 in Relationships
Well if he told you like that, then you need to tell him that you can't demand someones attention or support. It doesn't work like that. Ask him, wouldn't he rather you want to support him then feel like your obligated to?
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