I try to get him to talk to me about everything. MAybe am I too pushy? He jus doesnt talk to me about us a lot. Or how he feels about me or us sometimes. how can i get him to open up more?
Answer by incarnita at 8:42 PM on Dec. 22, 2009
oh that's easy! just find someone else more interesting to talk to and like to talk to you back. preferably a guy. You will see how quick he trys to get your eyes back on him!
Answer by soonmommyof3 at 7:32 PM on Dec. 22, 2009
Answer by MonicaE521 at 8:28 PM on Dec. 22, 2009
Answer by admckenzie at 8:31 PM on Dec. 22, 2009
Answer by JazzlikeMraz at 9:33 PM on Dec. 22, 2009
Answer by tigerlily721 at 11:13 PM on Dec. 22, 2009
Hey! its fine that you don't like my idea, but there is no freakin need to point me out so you can't make your point come across K!
Don't do what soonmommyof3 said. Don't play games to get your friend/partner to talk to you. That'll create a line of mistrust and cause unnecissary problems for you. Don't push the subject too hard. Guys will come around to talking to you on their own terms. Don't get chatty when he's busy. Whether it be watching a game, doing homework, or whatever it is he does. Try talking to him while you're in the car together, or while you're out to dinner together. A place that's casual and doesn't have a lot to distract him from talking to you. Just open up with a subject and try to lead into it .. If he doesn't respond right away ask "What do you think?" or something that will hint to him you're interested in knowing.
Answer by soonmommyof3 at 1:28 PM on Dec. 23, 2009
To the OP. My whole point of my comment was, just go do your own thing. If he wants to talk HE WILL COME TO YOU!
Answer by soonmommyof3 at 1:30 PM on Dec. 23, 2009