I have a friend of nearly 8 years. We don't get together too often because of conflicting schedules but when we do it's a fun time catching up. We used to go out to eat but we've stopped opting for home visits as a more economical and relaxing way to catch up. But it has been me that visits her home and only once has she come to hang out at mine; I obliged because I used to live in an apartment and it seemed sort of cramped. We've since bought a house with lots of room and she still doesn't visit. A couple of months ago we planned a chat session/playdate for our sons and she was a no show. Today she canceled a visit at my house but invites me to "hang out"with her during Christmas break. I was happy to talk to her today but I didn't honestly express my disappointment; I just didn't have the nerve, unusual for me because I'm usually quite assertive. What's the best way to get my point across without being brash?
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