I was a young mum(16) when i fell pregnant with my daughter emily, i told her dad and he wasnt very happy with the news but i still keeped her and even tho it was very hard work. She was the best thing that happened to me and im very proud of her. Anyway to cut a long story short, he hasnt been in her life and he did start paying a long time ago but stopped and started and i decided to give it to the csa to deal with. Emily is 11yr old and turns twelve in feb 2010 and all she goes on about is her dad and when will she get to see him? why doesnt he bother! shes getting very upset and it hurts me to see her like this. He lives in the same town as me but i just dont know what to do for the best, please help! i dont know what to do. thanks michelleAnswer Question
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I would have her right there with you when you try to contact him that way she sees that you are trying. Any response that you get, let her know. Let her see that it is him and not you. After this long, he is probably going to ignore the request or just simply say no. Just be right there to pick up the pieces.
I had to go through the same thing with my 13 y/o son.
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