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How long are you able to go without sex, without going insane?

I thought never, but when we started feuded, sex was like insult on top of injury. I refused to yield to lust or blackmail (i.e., emotional, physical or mental abuse). Never thought I'd see the day when being abstinent is cool, especially with all the diseases out. Besides, an unexpected benefit is that when I closed my legs my mind opened. Any one else notice that?

 
Ewadun

Asked by Ewadun at 10:58 PM on Dec. 23, 2009 in Relationships

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Answers (18)
  • I spent 15 yrs celebate. It's not that hard when you can take care of things yourself. I only bought a toy about 4 yrs ago. I do like it but admit I am glad SO came along and he knows what he's doing!
    admckenzie

    Answer by admckenzie at 11:44 AM on Dec. 24, 2009

  • 14 years and counting.......
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:59 PM on Dec. 23, 2009

  • 7 months and counting ...
    mommy16love

    Answer by mommy16love at 11:03 PM on Dec. 23, 2009

  • after having a baby at 16 i decided i do not want to have sex again until after im married.... i am still with my daughters dad though..
    mommy16love

    Answer by mommy16love at 11:03 PM on Dec. 23, 2009

  • 4 months post baby the thought of having sex disgusts me. I literally cringe at the sight of my fiance's penis. Horrible right? This is the longest I've ever gone without having sex and its not bothering me one bit.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:06 PM on Dec. 23, 2009

  • well seeing as my dh has been deployed for a year with an R&R 7 months in, guess you can say a year. yes we did have sex while he was on R&R but that's cuz he was here. if he hadn't had R&R it wouldn't have bothered me. no, it's dealing with my kids by myself for so long that drives me insane lol. Lord knows a break sounds nice!
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:26 PM on Dec. 23, 2009

  • A very long time.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:28 PM on Dec. 23, 2009

  • Couple days...
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:49 PM on Dec. 23, 2009

  • i havent had sex in over four years and i live with my SO...the thought of having sex with him makes me sick....
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:20 AM on Dec. 24, 2009

  • 2 years and counting, maybe longer since my SO and I didn't have much sex before. It was like once a month. Now it's been 2 years since we properly had sex (intercourse) and I'm not including the "oral" episodes in that time.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 5:44 AM on Dec. 24, 2009