Are you sure that they are treating you like a charity case? Maybe they're just trying to take care of you when they feel you need some help? Definitely it's wrong to dislike a child or treat them badly because of their parents. Children are innocent. Have you talked to your family members? When is your baby due? Will the father be part of the baby's life? Talk to your family, let them know that you love them, and understand how they feel about the dad, and that because of that your baby is going to need to feel loved by all of them. Hopefully, if you can talk to them they'll be able to actually be there for you and your child in a supportive, loving way, and not in a condescending, "you're not good enough" way. Do a little soul searching as well, and make sure that you're not just feeling insecure because of your situation. I'm sure your family loves you, and will love your baby as well. Good luck! message me if you want...
at 11:34 PM on Dec. 23, 2009