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Help! My boyfriend is a preacher

I started dating this guy who is a preacher. So far hes a really great guy. The problem is that hes a preacher. I have been knowing him most of my life. He has a reputation of being a "player" and for playing games with women. He says it is his past but he was still preaching at the time but says that preachers are not perfect. I am beginning to look at him differently as a "man of God". What should I do?

 
Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 10:44 PM on Dec. 25, 2009 in Relationships

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Answers (9)
  • He is not just a "ex-player" he is a hypocrite. I agree, a man of God is not a womanizer. Find someone who at least is honest with you and themselves.
    Whatkids

    Answer by Whatkids at 11:21 PM on Dec. 25, 2009

  • It's true that preachers are humans, and struggle just like anyone else. He very much have had an issue with this in the past, even as a preacher, but he very much could have over came it too. Time will tell. Don't jump in to anything too quick with him, and observe him.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:47 PM on Dec. 25, 2009

  • Judge the tree by its fruit. A man of God isn't a womanizer. If it's really in his past, he won't be a "player" anymore.

    If you're uncomfortable with what he believes to be his calling, you may need to re-evaluate the relationship. He may not be the one for you.
    rhope4

    Answer by rhope4 at 10:50 PM on Dec. 25, 2009

  • IMO if he has a reputation of being a player and you want a serious relationship, I would find someone else to date.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:13 PM on Dec. 25, 2009

  • I'm sure telling you it's in the past is part of his player line to women. I'd cut him loose and pray for him!
    admckenzie

    Answer by admckenzie at 11:26 PM on Dec. 25, 2009

  • Player turned preacher, i would run.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:07 AM on Dec. 26, 2009

  • LOL @ last comment!
    missthang42001

    Answer by missthang42001 at 9:36 AM on Dec. 26, 2009

  • WOW, I dont know where to start to answer this Question. Other then. If he is a PReacher.Then maybe he did See the light so to speach and decided to stop being a Hoe, I hope for your sake he did. I would atleast give him a chance, You wont ever know unless you do.
    MOMofTwo_99_00

    Answer by MOMofTwo_99_00 at 4:28 AM on Dec. 27, 2009

  • Besied, What man do you know who can be HONEST and say, HEY I USED TO PLAY FEMALES. NOW IM A PREACHER..... SO give him a try, I bet he is a wonderful Man of God Now.
    MOMofTwo_99_00

    Answer by MOMofTwo_99_00 at 4:30 AM on Dec. 27, 2009

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