I read through these questions, and women say things like "I don't let him do that" or "I had to nip it in the bud in a hurry"... then they wonder WHY their SO is unhappy in their relationship.
how is it possible to treat relationship as though it is permanent, expecting another human to put up with your constant griping and controlling nature? it is not permanent, and requires compromise... why can you not understand that? *sigh*
I can not imagine living in fear and anger, and insecurity- that is a conscious decision that you make.
Answer by BlainesMommy09 at 11:30 AM on Dec. 27, 2009
Answer by lfl at 11:34 AM on Dec. 27, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 11:53 AM on Dec. 27, 2009
Answer by Fistandantalus at 11:55 AM on Dec. 27, 2009
In a relationship I can only control my behavior the SO or DH is not my child and he had friends before I met him he had a life before I was involved why should that change after. I am who I am and would not like someone to say do this or do that. My brothers wife is that way he is only allowed to go out when she says and if she says no she better not have to say it a second time. no he is not my child and 50/50 works here.
Answer by pinkdragon36 at 12:42 PM on Dec. 27, 2009
Answer by Hali_Taylor at 1:47 PM on Dec. 27, 2009
I don't let him disrespect me, and that's not controlling IMO. He can do as he pleases as long as it does not consist of sneaking, lying or doing something he knows is against his wife. I also feel I am to do the same for him. He does those things, yes he will get bitched at, because that's selfish....and it's not all about him. I believe we should always make it a priority to consider the other spouse in everything we do, and if we purposely do something that is wrong to them, then why aren't they entitled to have a problem with it? Don't do the crime, if you can't handle the consequences.
Answer by Anonymous at 1:48 PM on Dec. 27, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 2:34 PM on Dec. 27, 2009
Answer by HaydensMommy007 at 3:33 PM on Dec. 27, 2009
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