My boyfriend and I have been living together for 2 years now. We met in Chicago. He and his family moved to Seattle 3 years ago. We live in Seattle now, where I am miserable. I miss my family and everything I had in Chicago. He says he will never move back there with me because it's too cold.
After months of struggling with bad jobs and increasing despair, I decided to return to school for a 3 year master's degree in English. I applied all over the country, at my boyfriend's suggestion.
He refuses go with me. He says he cannot leave his mother. She's schizophrenic and on a fixed income, and he feels he needs to stay with her. He says we should long-distance date for the 3 years I'm in school, and break up if I don't want to return to Seattle when my degree is over.
Am I right to feel that he should go with me? If he loved me I think he'd go with me. How are we going to have a future together if I am always less important?
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