So last night my husband and I decided to get a divorce. It wasn't an easy decision but it was definitely one that was not really surprising to either of us.
We have two children. A three year old and a four month old. We want to make this as easy on them as possible.
We're planning on making a big move in the spring so we're going to keep things as normal as possible here until we move and then have the changes come with the move so it's one big transition.
It was a mutual decision that we genuinely feel is in the best interest of our kids.
We don't want o fight in front of them anymore and we don't want to stay together for their sake and grow to resent each other more and then drag them through an ugly divorce.
I'm happy we're on the same page about it but I'm still really sad that it's come to this.
I know it will be better in the long run but right now I just feel really sad.
If anyone has any advice I'd love to hear it.
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