I am not very close to my boyfriends brother......okay he hates me. I've never done anything intentional to cause it. I had three surgeries last year and I did not feel well at all (I had an illiostomy bag coming from my stomach). It was a good opportunity for my bro-in-law and his wife to tell me how crappy I was as a girlfriend and mother to my ds and since I was sick, I took it all and went as far as to believe I was a crappy person. Now that I am recovered and doing well, I think that it was just an unhealthy time for me, but I still want peace with them for my boyfriends sake. My boyfriend had to do a lot for me last year and for my ds who's not his. I apologize constantly for not working last year and for using him and he tells me he did it gladly. His brother has lied to him and said I was cheating on him. He never believed them and never gave in their games.Answer Question
Answer by TinkTink205 at 8:51 AM on Dec. 28, 2009
Answer by Shyma at 8:51 AM on Dec. 28, 2009
Answer by admckenzie at 8:56 AM on Dec. 28, 2009
Well, your BF might just be better without his family. They might be toxic people anyway. If they REALLY loved your BF then they would make an effort to at least put up with you for his sake. Heck, my brother has dated serious stupid bitches, & because i love my brother, i have put up with them. That is what family does. If they chose not to see your BF because they do not want to see you, then they are super selfish people. Maybe they don't like the fact that your BF is happier with you than he is with his family. Just because they are family does not mean they HAVE to have a close relationship. If they are toxic, crazy, selfish people then your BF might be better off without them.
What is their reason not to like you? Because you were sick & did not work for a year?
Answer by samurai_chica at 8:57 AM on Dec. 28, 2009
Answer by TinkTink205 at 9:02 AM on Dec. 28, 2009
Answer by TinkTink205 at 9:10 AM on Dec. 28, 2009
Answer by NannyB. at 9:41 AM on Dec. 28, 2009
Answer by flyestmommy at 11:15 AM on Dec. 28, 2009
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