lastnite I was talking about going to the mall. Dh asked when are WE going. I jokingly told him I dont wanna go to the mall with him bcuz there are 2 many chicks there and we would divorce. He got upset. I said that becuz Dh has a problem with looking obsessively & repeatably at women. its like he cant help it. I told him it makes me uncomfortable when his quick glances turn into 4 and 5 glances or stares. he says its a man thing and it don't mean nothing. i say if it don't mean nothing then why keep doing it. i kno some of you will say whats the big deal, hes not dead blah blah, i dont have a problem with him glancing at something that may attract him but I cant stand when he keeps doing it without any regards to me being there, and to make it worse when a fine man comes around Dh quickly looks at me to see if i am gona look, i tell him not everybody is like him. He stayed mad the rest of the night and I still dont know why?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 2:05 PM on Dec. 28, 2009 in Just for Fun
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Answer by BridgetC140 at 2:26 PM on Dec. 28, 2009
Tell him It's a matter of respect. My husband doesn't gawk at women when he's with me because he respects me, and he mature enough to to let a nice looking lady pass without having to look.
Answer by Anonymous at 2:30 PM on Dec. 28, 2009
Saying "It's a man thing" is a cop-out. My man doesn't do it, ever. I used to watch him, just to see, since my dad did it all the time and it drove my mom nuts. They are now divorced. It's fine, imo, to glance or look, we can't walk around with our eyes closed, but if it's a real problem, as it sounds like it is, then he's taking it too far and is choosing to use "It's a man thing" as an excuse. A real man wouldn't gawk at other women.
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