This guy was my best friend in high school and we had feelings for each other. But I married someone else. Everytime I had a problem with my husband I called him. Now I am getting a divorce. So my friend has been in Iraq and is back for 2 weeks. He emailed me saying he wanted to see me but after that I have no heard anything.
So the thing is I have loved you for a very long time. But I was young and stupid and didn't know what love was. So I blew it. But I remember all the time we spend together and I so desperately want that back. You were my best friend. I was so happy I was going to get to see you and I don't understand what happened. So I just wanted to let you know all that. I know it probably isn't even fair to tell you all this. I know I always called you and then lost contact. But I can't move on without you knowing.
Asked by Anonymous at 3:41 PM on Dec. 28, 2009 in Relationships
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Answer by 3_ring_circus_ at 3:56 PM on Dec. 28, 2009
Give him time to respond. Being in a war zone and then home for two weeks and then to go back is hard. I know when my hubby comes home from a deployment it takes a good week or two just for him to fully relax and get back into the routine of home. He just may not be able to respond to you at this time, it probably is overwhelming to him. He obviously cares for you or you wouldn't have remained in contact and been such a good fiend over the years. Give him time, to get his head screwed on straight again. Being in deployed is very hard on the body mind and soul for our military. And he is probably having a swarm of loved ones keeping him very busy right now. You were honest and true, give him time, he will respond.
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