So many questions on here with women in bad relationships - abuse, jealousy, cheating, lack of trust, on and on, either or both partners. I've had plenty myself, but I've learned a few things over the years and thought maybe we could all share some fundamentals here... communication, trust, handling arguments.
1. It's okay to go to sleep without resolving an argument. You need sleep. In fact, things look alot different after everyone cools down and steps away emotionally. It's like taking a walk, counting to ten - it's a needed break.
2. Lots of things get said in the heat of the moment BUT it doesn't mean they should be ignored after apologies made. Things are said for a reason... What's behind the name calling and nastiness? That stuff needs to be addressed, not ignored, because it does have to do with real feelings.
3. Make up sex is not as good as sex that comes from a consistently loving relationship.
Answer by camiam81 at 10:32 AM on Dec. 29, 2009
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Answer by luvbnmomnwife at 12:00 PM on Dec. 29, 2009
Always take care of yourself and take care of the relationship by talking do not let things sit. Do not be embarrassed to say what you need and what you want from the relationship and have your own goals as well even if it is something simple for yourself.
Answer by pinkdragon36 at 1:28 PM on Dec. 30, 2009
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