My husband and I were seperated for 4 months, he had been treating me like crap, making me feel ugly and unwanted and I ended up making out with his friend, we tried for a month to work it out, then split, he said he didn't love me anymore and that it couldn't work cause of me making out with his friend. Then in sept. he wanted to try working it out again, I agreed, I loved him still. Now almost 4 months back together and I feel again like before we split, he doesn't show me enough affection again, I've talked to him him about it over and over again, and the fact that he works so much and is never home even when he can be, he chooses his own work hours but still usually is gone 12+ hours.
I feel like he only got back with me so he has a maid and doesn't have to pay child support. He also refuses to fill out paperwork to get our daughter medicaid and repeatedly does selfish things (cont.)
Asked by Anonymous at 6:25 PM on Dec. 29, 2009 in Relationships
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Set a plan sweetie. Something along the lines of 1) drivers licence, 2) make copies of all pay stubs, tax returns and bills. 3) fill out the application for child support enforcement before you leave 4) fill out the medicaid form before you leave and say he's not the custodial parent and they can go after him for child support, 5) Start saving money now, extra change around the house, take small amounts from the bank account, ask friends and family for personal loans. Never ever allow yourself to get stuck and that's exactly the position you've put yourself in right now. Always have money or something for a back up plan.
Answer by legalmommy101 at 7:03 PM on Dec. 29, 2009