I agreed to my husband going to his friends house just a mintue ago. He left already and its 2 in the morning. His friend Jerry is sick with heart failure and he called my husband to come over and meet some of his friends that he had over. He said he didn't want to go, that he wanted to spend time with me. But he also said the MAIN reason why he said no, is because he didn't want me to be upset about it. True in the past I have and I would get mad at him for wanting, but know I just feel numb about it. It made him really happy though. Is it normal for me to feel this way?
Answer by eyedoleyes at 4:53 AM on Dec. 30, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 3:31 AM on Dec. 30, 2009
did you not read my questions correctly. I did not say I was jealous, I said I was numb about it. which means I feel nothing! I for one don't know who is over there or if they are partying. Husband just said they he heard people having a good time, which I don't give flying turd about. I just wanted to know if him going over there at 2 in the morning is okay and if me feeling indifferent about it is normal when in the past, when his friend was NOT SICK i DID. only because he would always be doing or wanting to do something else. not spend time with his family. now he does so its no big deal. I am just feeling some new things right now and I am not sure if its normal or not.
So his friend is sick with a heart problem and your jealous he is out with him at his house? if they are not partying, drinking and woman over the house it should be a calm night for them. Why does it matter?
Answer by soonmommyof3 at 3:37 AM on Dec. 30, 2009
Answer by sgtdemanda at 3:38 AM on Dec. 30, 2009
I fail to see how I am making a mountain out of a molehill. When he has no idea how I feel about it. I just told him it was okay to go, because I did not want him staying because he'd think I would get mad about it. Who wants someone to stay because of that? I want him to stay because he wants to, not because he thinks I would get mad. That's why I told him I didn't mind. That's why I feel numb about it. IT made him so happy. I can't spoil that. and I wouldn't.
Try not to take this the wrong way but I think you might be making a mountain out of a molehill here. Unless there is something I missed or you didn't include in your question I don't see what the problem is. Of course, it IS 0330 and I'm pretty much brain dead.
Answer by soonmommyof3 at 3:43 AM on Dec. 30, 2009
by the way I am sick with kidney failure, so I beg the differ here. Why does it matter that he is sick. just as it wouldn't matter by me being sick either. I just added that in their so you could see what kind of person I am. Which is CARING.
Answer by soonmommyof3 at 3:45 AM on Dec. 30, 2009
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