I live with my boyfriend who has a super crazy sister! Well about 2-3 months ago, she was harrassing my boyfriend and I, so I threatened to take our daughter & I out of the equation & move back home unless he cut her out of his life completel, so he did. Well today she calls out of the blue & starts cussing me out as soon as I said hello. She was telling me that I was a hypocrite & how she was going to come to our house & kick my a*s. She has a 14 month old daughter who DSS has been involved with since she was born. My question is, what should I do? If I take a harassment warrant out on her she would lose the baby & then the family would be pissed at me. But on the other hand if I don’t do anything she is just going to keep doing this. Please give me some advice, I have a super normal family and my boyfriend’s family is SUPER strange! Should I take a warrant out on her or no?Answer Question
Answer by robyann at 1:23 PM on Dec. 30, 2009
Answer by Allergic2Stupid at 1:32 PM on Dec. 30, 2009
Answer by JewelsE at 2:18 PM on Dec. 30, 2009
I would step up to your boyfriend and ask him what he thinks should be done he is the one related to her after all. do not mess with idol threats. I have a relative like this and she would bully me after a while I just stopped taking her calls because I knew she was trying to bait me. Yes this will come back on you but pull yourself up say stuff like hey why don't you call back when you have something sensible to say refuse to fall into her trap. After a while I made it impossible for said relative to bully me. IM or PM me if you need to talk do not allow this bully to pull you in this is her high and your the new target. Take a deep breath and do not allow her to make you her new throw rug.
Answer by pinkdragon36 at 10:48 AM on Dec. 31, 2009